I have been thinking about what you told us about your dad and the effect it is having on your stress level and general health. If I may be so bold as to give you some totally free advice, I would tell ya that the problem you are experiencing is a result of trying to control a situation that you have no control over. Dads try to take care of sons and sons try to take care of dads, but there are some things better left in Gods hands. Just pray. It will be alright whatever happens.
Liberals are like a "Slinky". Totally useless, but somehow ya can't help but smile when you see one tumble down a flight of stairs!
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