While I can appreciate your effort to defend your friend on FART3, you are confused. Don't feel bad; you don't have all the facts.
Bob was frustrated that one of his users was calling him (as she periodically does, under the mistaken assumption that he enjoys it) and whining that I was getting too personal about something. So he advised me of the problem and deleted the post. Out of respect for him, I have totally desisted from that type of post, factually correct though it was, and will not reference specifics about other users again (even when all I did was to mention something another user had talked about long ago.)
That said, whining phone calls to Bob *will* make this board go away, along with all of the other boards. Bob is already walking a fine line between keeping the system up and shutting it down. At this time, there is only one person who is a threat to the system, and it sure ain't me.