Splitting hairs, my dear Due.
We can reach common ground by dropping the term 'narcissist' - and simply use this:
Sociopaths are completely self-centered and self-absorbed people - they care nothing about other people whatsoever. Obama falls fully into this category.
That avoids the psycho-babble routine from the AMA about what 'narcissism' actually is.

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