And she started coughing her fool head off and when she was done, just so you know if you have a cough or sore throat when you arrive we will ask you to where a mash HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA I thought she was going to croke with her cough....

Realist - Everybody in America is soft, and hates conflict. The cure for this, both in politics and social life, is the same -- hardihood. Give them raw truth.