And you should see the diagrams the Air Force is using...
Joint Base Andrews in Maryland recently issued a threat brief regarding "incels": members of an online movement that "adopt an ideology of misogyny, mistrust of women, and violence in response to their failed attempts at romantic relationships," according to Task and Purpose.
The term "incel" is generally defined as: "...members of an online subculture who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one, a state they describe as inceldom. Self-identified incels are largely white and are almost exclusively male heterosexuals. The term is a portmanteau of "involuntary celibates"."
Another, simpler definition: men who can't get laid.

Several mass casualty events as a result of "incels" have happened with increasing frequency since May 2014, after a 22 year old man shot and killed six women in California as "retribution" for years of being rejected by the opposite sex.
The Air Force included in its briefing a screenshot of a common internet meme used by "incels" called "Becky vs. Stacy", a diagram that purportedly shows how "incels" judge women based solely on their physical features.

Let's hope no one ever introduces this community to Islam's promise of 72 virgins...
http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2019-06-26/air-force-warns-angry-incel-men-who-cant-get-laid-and-go-mass-killing-sprees

Realist - Everybody in America is soft, and hates conflict. The cure for this, both in politics and social life, is the same -- hardihood. Give them raw truth.