Interestingly enough in Scripture, we read that men are COMMANDED by God to LOVE their wives. There is no such command for women.
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No offense, micro, but regardless of what Scripture says, a woman SHOULD love their husbands, make them feel that only he exists, take care of his needs and be there with him right until the end. A good woman doesn't need a command, IMO.
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So, men have the ability to love again if they lose their spouse....
I do think it's easier for men to move on after they lose their spouse.
If you think education is expensive, try ignorance.