These gents don't tell me anything.
I haven’t been entirely forthcoming about this situation, but my in-laws needed to go into assisted living last July. Some of the family wanted to keep most of their ‘stuff’ at the house, only bringing what they needed. That kept them confused about where they were and when they were going home. Due to dementia issues, that was not going to happen. My wife finally started moving familiar items into their appartment and they have largely settled in.
Now the four of the ‘children’ have decided to sell the house, so we went over today to tell Pa that we are moving that way. He can tell their Mom when she has a good day.
Now we have to split up whatever people want, then have an estate sale and empty the house.
Much work ahead,
nacl
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