Or, if you prefer, let's have people take responsibility for their own defense and safety.
G/M Riana - I don't think you'll find anyone on this board that disagrees with you.
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I hate that I might need to defend myself with lethal force, but I'd rather do that than have someone explain to my husband that he's a widower because I was not allowed to do so.
Welp, there's something I wouldn't hate. If there's somebody trying to kill me, I would not hesitate to blow them away. Self-preservation.
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Widow, widower - dirtiest words in the dictionary, imo.
Have a great day!