Little bro,
Completely understandable considering what you just went through.
I actually do not mind at all going to see my dentist. I do have soft teeth which I was born with and several crowns and fillings. I floss daily and brush twice a day and still, I have this. Sometimes we just have to play the hand we are dealt..
In your case, I would not trade places with you. That is a lot of trama.
Hope your mouth gets to feeling better sooner than later!