"If you ask cops what Americans should do, they will tell you to comply, cooperate, obey, not resist, not argue, not make threatening gestures or statements, avoid sudden movements, and submit to a search of their person and belongings... Frankly, the only truly compliant, submissive and obedient citizen in a police state is a dead one."
http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2017-11-29/nervous-about-traffic-stops-i-am-you-should-be-too

Realist - Everybody in America is soft, and hates conflict. The cure for this, both in politics and social life, is the same -- hardihood. Give them raw truth.