"my" theory. ha ha!
the current scientific consensus, to the extent it exists, belongs to scientists. your argument is with them.
my own theory doesn't rise to the level of science. it is just an untested hypothesis which says the structure of everything in our universe requires the existence of opposing forces. which means we will never end up with a stable and uniform state or a coherent theory of everything.
you believe in an electric universe. i think the electric force is not unique. currently, scientists generally agree that gravity is not an electric force.
I thought you'd have noticed the difference between an electric and a gravitational force when conducting your own kitchen experiment.
the well-known divide is between gravitation and relativity theory which operate on large scales and have almost no effect on tiny scales, and quantum physics which is more-or-less the opposite.