Clo, I feel sorry for your family. It seems that you have raised them to believe that socialism is the best future of our nation. That means that they think that working hard is of no benefit to themselves. It seems that you believe and have therefore taught them that the few should control the many. That family is not important. That the government should control our lives from cradle to grave and that no one should have personal choice.
May God show you the error of your ways and may he keep you and your family safe.