Weco:
When there was racial friction in Cambridge Ma. between a police sargeant and a black Harvard professor a few years back, Obama addressed the problem by sitting down over a beer in the Rose Garden. I thought that worked out pretty well without assessing blame either way.
Maybe Obama needs to sit down with some wingers and talk things out a bit. Listening could be useful also.
I wish your outrage was directed more towards filthy neocon scumbags rather than ignorant white folks who are trying to live their lives, rightly and wrongly.