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Loneliness


"So whether we are at home or away, we make it our aim to pleae God." 1 Corinthians 5: 9


This text wants to make all places the same, at least spiritually. Whether we are at home or away, we are to try to please God. There is a lot to be said about such constancy, especially because we are pretty the same psychological people whether in Bermuda or Brooklyn. Some of us know how to be lonely anywhere.

Loneliness is not something that other people, no matter their value or virtue, can resolve. Loneliness is not something that the ideal job can resolve. Bermuda, nice as it is, won't impact loneliness. Neither will Brooklyn or whatever name you give your hometown. Loneliness is unresolvable. It is the property of ancients and moderns, priests and peasants, kings and shepards, queens and chambermaids. These words will never be published in the AARP journal or in Woman's Day, each of which feature articles with titles like "The Seven
Steps to Conquor Loneliness." Loneliness is not conquerable. It is, however, manageable. We can learn to be alone but not lonely--and and even then loneliness will find its way to our souls. What is the antidote? It is to have a singular focus, a place to live outside of ourselves. Praise is as good a word as any for this.

Loneliness is what cars experience in the long term parking lot at LaGuardia, or what a pitcher feels when he throws a wild ball or what a son feels the day he realizes perhaps he never knew his father. Loneliness is what a mother feels watching her son play a national championship and lose by one point. Fully aware that this is probably his last tournament. Loneliness is the quiet in the car as you drive him to the airport. Loneliness is a clock that lost its battery, a Detroit mechanic who can't learn computers. Loneliness is an island where none of the ferries run again until Monday.

If praise is the antidote, then what is praise? Praise is the ferry that comes to carry you home to the place you always wanted to be. It is being more connected to God than you are to any human or human experience. It is knowing that no tournament is one's last, and finally, that tournaments matter less than we imagine. Praise is being of service, with the joy a car feels when it is liberated from LaGuardia or a mechanic knows when he fixes a car the old fashioned way. Loneliness is ineviatable--and praise is possible as a sidekick in it and through it.


Lose me in praise rather than in myself, great God, whether I am home or away. Amen.


Donna Schaper is Senior Minister, Judson Memorial Church, New York, New York.


To say that "God exists" is the greatest understatement ever made across space and time.


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Re: Spring Cleaning!
By: joe-taylor
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Tue, 19 Mar 13 4:34 PM
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Who Would Be King?


"When Jotham was told about this, he climbed up on the top of Mount Gerizim and shouted to them, "listen to me, citizens of Shechem, so that God may listen to you. One day the trees went out to anoint a king for themselves. They said to the olive tree, 'Be our king.' But the olive tree answered, 'Should I give up my oil, by which both gods and humans are honored, to hold sway over the trees?' Mext, the trees said to the fig tree, 'Come and be our king.' But the fig tree replied, 'Should I give up my fruit, so good and sweet, to hold sway over the trees?' Then the trees said to the vine, 'Come and be our king.' But the vine answered, 'Should i give up my wine, which cheers both gods and humans, to hold sway over the trees?' Finally all the trees said to the thornbush, 'Come and be our king.' The thornbush said to the trees, 'If you really want to anoint me king over you, come and take refuge in my shade; but if not, then let fire come out of the thornbush and consume the cedars of Lebanon!'" Judges 9: 7-15


Rarely does the Bible tell parables as good as Aesop or Grimm. But this little gem, buried in the book of Judges, can compete.

Jotham, who tells the story, has narrowly escaped fratricide. His brother Abimelech has set himself up as king after slaughtering all of his brothers. Better one king than 70, the wiley Abimilech told the citizens of Shechen, and they agreed, and looked away.

But just because Abimilech proved craftier and mightier than his brothers does not mean he is the most fit to rule. The olive tree, the fig tree and the vine all have good and juicy treats to offer, but recognize that being king over all the trees means giving up their primary role of gladdening the hearts and filling the bellies of mortals and gods alike. They are not willing to elevate themselves and therefore get right in the sight lines of those who love to scapegoat leaders.

Too often, being king is such a thankless task that nobody with anything good and juicy to offer wants the job. And so the thornbush, which has not much to offer anybody except its misguided hubris, is elected.

Too often, good people fail to step up and speak up, to educate themselves and fight back in a sustained way against injustice. Misguided rulers and oppressive systems may "win the fight," but that doesn't mean they are in the right.

Who am I to be a leader? You might ask yourself. But don't sell yourself short. Those with the least ambition to rule often turn out to be the very best leaders: humble, sweet and cheering.


King of Kings, whatever gifts I have, whatever juice I produce, let it be put into the humble service of every last one of your children. Give me the courage to lead from in front, more of the time. Amen.


Molly Baskette is Senior Minister of First Church, UCC, in Somerville, Massachusetts.


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