Rationalize or Confess?
"Happy or those whosae transgression is forgiven." Psalm 32: 2
I used to say that if I were to start my own business, it would be called, We Can Rationalize Anything. Just bring something you have done or anticipate doing, and I will help you rationalize it. Of course, it wasn't long before I realized that this business would be a complete bust. Although there is great demand for rationalizations, most people know very well how to come up with their own.
The alternative to rationalization is confession. Some people tell me they don't like prayers of confesson in worship. When they talk about their experience of confession it sounds about as appealing as a trip to the principal's office. But confession, when it is followed by an assurance of pardon, can be something quite different--more like being shown the way to freedom after a time of captivity.
After all, there is something wonderfully freeing about facing the truth about ourselves. Some people may need to believe that they are lovable, but Christians are free to recognize that we are not always lovable because we know that God loves us anyway. The point of confession is not to feel badly about ourselves, but rather to cling to the goodness of God.
There was a self-help book a while back entitled I'm Okay, You're Okay. William Sloane Coffin liked to point out that the Christian version of that affirmation is more like, I'm Not Okay, You're Not Okay, But That's Okay. Coffin's version is an assurance of God's forgiveness. That's why I don't think of confession as anything like a trip to the vice-peincipal's office.
God, though I sometimes shrink from confession, help me to be open with you, I will cling to your goodness. Amen.
Martin B. Copenhaver is Senior Pastor, Wellesley Congregational Church, UCC, Wellesley, Massachusetts.