Basically I believe affairs are between the couple.
We live much longer, so till death do us part takes on a heavier toll.
He is/was the head of the CIA, that changes things.
Besides, you're not allowed to have an adulterous relationship in the military. He's a four star general & probably would've earned a fifth before retiring.
Andrea Mitchell broke the news on MSNBC, she was visibly shaken, welled up. This was breathtaking news.
Apparently an investigation is in process. A woman is writing a book about him & they became very close.
I don't know if she is the other woman.

DO SOMETHING!