Alea, perhaps it is matter of our perceptions of the rapist demographic.
You have mentioned the predator crawling in the window. Acknowledged, I have them a 1% of the demographic. You have mentioned the person, some bloke in England who in the midst of consensual relations was told to pull out and didn't. I assign that the other 1%. One is the vicious predator, the other perhaps a victim themself.
Structure for me is the 98%, juries are for the fringes.
I cannot accept your more sensible structure, not for now. Call back in 2030.