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Re: What is rape?

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"That's my take............after having tried a few times with my wife over 20 years,i always woke her up & never been successful yet.....Smilelol!............."

Tone understood!

But just to take it seriously for a second...

I don't think many would call you a rapist for this. And yet, if your wife was the sort to complain, I guess she could claim you are attempting to be!

So you're inhabiting the borderland that troubles me. And that seems wrong. I worry about letting the law into the bedroom, unless the issue is very clear.


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Re: What is rape?
By: faul
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Wed, 22 Aug 12 5:01 PM
Msg. 09439 of 54959

Hi Alea.......

The woman was asleep & unconscious......therefore
could not & did not give her permission that time.Just
because a man has had sex with a woman once,doesn't
mean it gives him the right any time he pleases....

It's not just a risk of impregnation but a risk of
contracting sexual diseases & even the possibility
of death through AIDS.........You broke a verbal contract,
one that offered her protection from potential risks.

Not saying the time served should be the same as
conventional rape but there should be a sentence.....

It's a mine field for a man as well,if he's well
mannered & behaved there should be no problems...
if he behaves like a pig...........there will be problems.

That's my take............after having tried a few times
with my wife over 20 years,i always woke her up & never been
successful yet.....Smilelol!.............


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