tryagain,
I'm with you, when its over, its over!
Enough is enough ;))
My youngest son will be in charge & I have a printout on how NOT to get ripped off on cremations, its near my will & we discussed it.
No embalming, cardboard box used, bring one of my collectable cookie jars for my remains & bring me home. I'm leaving him the house w/me! heehee
He can scatter me on the lawn if he wants.
No viewing, have family & friends to the house.
Use the money for something fun!!!
Until my younger sister died unexpectedly & too young & I realized cremation was kinder, I considered a coffin.
My idea, have a motion detector & do some recordings so when they came to the coffin they'd hear me say; Oh you look wonderful, thanks for coming.
A sense of humor is the best way to gooooo! ;))