So you inviting me over for a drink, so I can "enjoy my martini in fear" is innocent? Interesting. I apologize for mis-interpreting your intentions.
I understand that you don't understand why I choose to carry a gun. What I don't understand is why you think I shouldn't be allowed to carry one. Is it that you believe firearms are for police, military, hunting, or home protection only? That there is no need for one outside the home, because if I encounter a situation, it'll be too late?

What is the point of rules that are not enforced?