teecee-
Your first message talked about being a man- echoing the words of my paison and hero Joepa going back to my Blue/White game in 1960. And as men we don't place blame. As he taught us- "we win as a team and we lose as a team".
Finally, you play your heart out until the final whistle blows. One of my other favorites from Joepa-
"they may push us around for 3 quarters, but the fourth quarter is ours"!! You da man!