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Re: Tuesday ramblings--The unspoken word!

By: joe-taylor in ALEA | Recommend this post (0)
Wed, 05 Oct 11 10:38 PM | 89 view(s)
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CF,

Thanks for your reply!

We've been watching the commentaries for the last few days. The way they have been handling this issue is the reason that we wrote the piece. We suppose that it might be good that some blacks commentarors have not had the experiences with terms like this because they have grown up in a less resentfull and bigoted world. Those of us who did are getting older and more quiet as we approach our fates.

The black man who took supper on our back steps had also taken care of a litter of pups that my first pet dog had the year before so we had a relationship of sorts with him. When one thinks about it, just how many five year olds in a lilly white town ever got to have a relationship of any sort, particularly of a positive nature, with a person like this. The two black men took off after the rape and killing and it took them ten days to finally track down my black friend and bring him to justice. Vienna was afraid until they were captured and the nights were scarey, to say the least. We had known this man as a friend and you can just imagine what it was like to be five years old and to be cast into this sort of situation. We might have turned into the biggest bigot in the world over this incident. Instead, we have become the person that we have become and we credit this and other things that we saw during our early years for that happening the way that it did.
Our parents had been raised themselves in households with a stong religious and non discriminatory influence. We credit them with giving us the exposures that we got in those early formative years.

Regards,

Joe


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Re: Tuesday ramblinga--The unspoken word!
By: Cactus Flower
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Wed, 05 Oct 11 1:37 AM
Msg. 05947 of 54959

Hi j-t,

I'm probably the least sensitive person on this thread, but I have no issue here with your use of the word you dislike hearing.

Personally, I don't think hiding the word changes the history it represents. It isn't a word to use at someone. But to treat it as unmentionable gives it a power which I find uncomfortable.

Context matters.


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