Nice essay! Alas, it's a bit off point. I've noted only that you routinely make a big deal out of an injustice that rarely happens, and act oblivious to a far greater one caused, in part, by society's overreaction to the first one. It's kind of weird.
Sorry to hear about your family member. That was only a guess, honest. Is it your son? I know you often mention the one who's a master chef but never talk about son #2.
I've got a friend with a jailed child. It's ripping him in two, but I think he agrees with me about the death penalty. The man's a rock.