Ima, if I was in your situation I believe I would vote "yes" too.
OT: I saw your post regarding the Military Cemetary at Normandy over on Bob's board. Since I'm not allowed to post there, I just wanted to congratulate you on the honor of lowering the flag at that ceremony. That is a place of almost unequalled beauty as cemetaries go, don't you agree? In a word, it is "pristine"...a moving experience; the French take special effort to maintain it with the respect and care the occupants deserve.