I don't know about youor anyone else for that matter BUTTTT,
like you, I have previously put TWO kids through College as well as myself.
Yes, the lad, young man still growing up, is supposed to be studying.
What I found when I was in "higher learning" is that I actually found I learned more after college. Much more.
It's an ongoing lifelong experience.. At least in my careers. Wondered if you found that to be the case also and Sir Wizard..