Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not.
You have not things that you would like because you do not spend ANY TIME in prayer asking the Lord in faith for them... This does not mean you are going to get them, but if HE knows that there is no harm and that it might help in the firtherance of HIS Kingdom, there is nothing he will withhold from His own...