I think you can recover to be better than before. Like it or not, Trump is a personification of American values of a certain sort. And Biden is going to express another set that is prone to moral superiority.
I hope a third America rises from the ashes: law-abiding, hopeful, individualistic, encouraging ... and humbled by experience some. Be part of the community of nations, neither its superior, nor isolated from it. That would be a far more loveable America. I want that for you.
Then Trump might have done some good, even if accidentally.