Well resoned as usual BUTTTTTTTTT (you knew it was coming) lol,
here's a grand idea. I am going to assume your wife is a legal adult,over age 18, and she is fairly capable of making decisions and choices......
Why don;t you simply let her make up her own mind what her preferences are regarding mask wearing...
My misses doesn't do anything she don't want to and the old saying applies, If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy.... You know what I'm talking about......
So if miz micro wants to wear a mask around its okay with me. If she don't that's okay as well. She is an adult and can make up her own mind...
I suspect miz De is quite capable of making choices as well.
They just let us think we're smart De..... !