Trump is offered less by Dems.
Pelosi delivered the defeat and so her offer of nothing is stronger than his demand for everything.
No one thinks he will shut down this time. The argument is internal to the GOP. The Senate want to deliver a veto-free bill but they want to have a commitment from Trump that he won't turn that against them with the GOP base. They know what their coward is made of.
He'd be red if he wasn't also yellow.