Yer sister is right. Leave the love seat out in front of yer old place and then move with no forwarding address. If you've already moved, move again.
I know I stayed in the NJ house for too long but it was to avoid moving. I hope I kick the infamous bucket before I have to move again.
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Nope ... no grandchildren, yet.
And you would be such a good one!
If you think education is expensive, try ignorance.