Like ah’ said: some/many of these things attributed to Paul were written by unknowns, and not by Paul.
All one needs to know about being a Christian is the life and doings of Jesus and the Parables of Jesus, which have all the meaning and guidance someone calling themselves a Christian should know and practice.
This other stuff written decades and centuries later is contradicting and meaningless, despite the fact that it is accepted widely.
Jesus would NEVER say “he who won’t work, won’t eat”.
If you want to debate this, start from that quote.
Otoh, in current society, personal responsibility is important, so it is a conundrum.