Also.
It surely isn't hard to get someone to bake you a white cake with ribbons and flowers and you buy your own plastic husband statues to stick on top.
To me, it sounds like the cake maker is being singled out for attorney bullying by the gay lobby. So it's more of this conversation narrowing thing I keep complaining about.
Leave people alone, for Gawd's sake. Quit pretending you are a victim. It's a cake, not Auschwitz. The world isn't perfect. Suck it up and move along. Unless you also want lawyers in your bedroom, because those guys will take fees wherever they are offered them.